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There are of course those women who would rather be caught dead than send a first message, and then there are those who like to take the relationship reins and determine their own love destiny.
This is something I personally struggle with while using dating apps, which is why I decided to go straight to the source and survey over men. We like a woman who knows what she wants.
Guys are mostly lazy they get what they want rather easily.
However, there is of course the psychological debate of men being the hunter who need to chase after us women, their prey. After giving it much thought and digesting all of the male opinions, I have to agree that reaching out is not the same as chasing.
Get his attention and First message to send to a girl online dating let him put in the work, which he will if he wants to meet you. Act like a lady. Do not go further than reaching out first. I still believe the man should initiate getting your number and setting up a date in person. To my pleasant surprise, there were also three cases of women who are now actually engaged or married to the men they messaged first.
So ladies, you have my blessing to go after the men you want on dating apps.
The gift and curse of dating apps is the quantity of potential matches that unfortunately make people seem disposable. The upside of messaging first is your freedom of choice. Go ahead and do an experiment. I want you to send him a message first! Get his attention, create the connection and then act like you normally would as if a man reached out to you first.
Would love to hear your success stories! Feel free to let me know how it goes!
Get his attention, what do you have to lose besides a great guy who might become your future ex-boyfriend? A post shared by Sonya Blade?? Sonya is responsible for managing day-to-day operations such as overseeing developers, designers, marketing strategy and most importantly, answering each and every dating question sent by an existing or future user. Her no-nonsense, pragmatic advice has been heralded by many critics, especially within the dating app scene.
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